Intellectual Stimulation for the Stay at Home Mom

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By Giselle Maine

Photo credit and copyright: Loretta Humble.  Used under license from stock photo site sxc.hu
Photo credit and copyright: Loretta Humble. Used under license from stock photo site sxc.hu

If you are a stay-at-home mother who is tearing her hair out trying to find something intellectual in her day, look no further. This guide shows you how to work different intellectual activities into your day while caring for your child.

Best of all, these ideas are budget-friendly and needn't depend on a napping child nor require extra childcare!

Writing poetry

Even if you have not been a creative type in the past, this is a great time to branch out and stimulate the left side of your brain by writing poetry. Keep a pretty notebook wherever you and the kids tend to be most often. At first you may just have one sentence spring to mind in your poem; jot it down and keep the poem at the back of your mind. Add to it over time bit by bit as more inspiration strikes.

Some reading suggestions

A World History of Architecture
Traditions in architecture from around the world, from prehistoric to modern structures
Amazon Price: $41.93
List Price: $110.00
The Elegant Universe: Superstrings, Hidden Dimensions, and the Quest for the Ultimate Theory
String theory explained for the layperson. Reviewed very highly.
Amazon Price: $6.75
List Price: $16.00
The Middle Ages
The European history of the Middle Ages written for the layperson.
Amazon Price: $2.00
List Price: $17.00

Learn something new from a book

If there's a topic about which you'd like to know more, then this is the perfect time to do it! Find a book at your local library about an intellectual topic which intrigues you. Of course, while caring for your kids you'll only be reading just a few minutes at a time and not very often in total in a day, but it adds up and you'll be surprised at what you can learn this way!

For example, there are many books in the genre of popular science which can help explain concepts such quantum theory or cell biology in terms which a layperson can understand. Or if you're thinking of starting your own garden but it's the middle of winter, get a head start on your hobby by reading up on it and making plans. Alternatively, maybe you wish you'd known more about a certain period in history, such as the Middle Ages… the possibilities for intellectual stimulation this way are endless.

Intellectual magazines

If reading a book incrementally can seem daunting, try an intellectual magazine instead. It can be put down for several days without requiring you to remember all that you have read in the preceding pages! There are several magazines which are ideal for the intellectual woman which tackle real-world, nitty-gritty issues in depth. It is suggested you avoid a parenting-style magazine, as these can focus on not-so-intellectual topics.

Invent a recipe

You are most likely cooking for your family anyway, so why not apply your talents to the endeavor of creating a new dish?

You'll enjoy the satisfaction of inventing something entirely new. Best of all as a mom, you'll be able to use only ingredients you and your family like. However, unless you are especially skilled (or lucky!), be prepared for it to take several rounds of changes to improve your recipe to the point where you and your family are completely satisfied with it. If the notion of a new recipe seems daunting, start instead by applying your talents to altering an existing recipe to make it healthier, quicker to make, or to fit in with a family member's dietary requirements.

Classical music appreciation

The History of Classical Music (Non Fiction)
A CD audiobook containing narrated information AND brief classical music clips illustrating the narrative. Everything you need as an all-in-one first guide to classical music.
Amazon Price: $15.09
List Price: $28.98
Classical Music for Dummies
A book which guides the reader into classical music. Comes with a CD containing over 60 minutes of representative audioclips to help illustrate the book. Another all-in-one option.
Amazon Price: $13.75
List Price: $24.99
25 Classical Favorites
A CD compilation of classical favorites from different time periods.
Amazon Price: $1.62
List Price: $4.98

Music appreciation

Have you ever wanted to know more about a particular genre of music, such as jazz, classical, or swing? Purchase a couple of CDs to begin with and get out a book from the library about the history of that type of music.

For example, with classical music, try a CD containing a selection of well-known pieces from a variety of different composers, and obtain a book with information on those composers. You can have the CD playing in the background as you and the kids go about your day at home. Soon you'll find out which composers you like best, and this knowledge will help guide you toward other composers you might like to try in the future. Music appreciation can be a highly rewarding lifelong hobby.

Puzzles

Logic puzzles, brainteasers, crosswords and Sudoku can be ideal ways for a stay-at-home mother to get intellectual stimulation and keep a sharp brain. As with reading, you'll find that you'll have to do these brain-sharpening hobbies in piecemeal fashion with a few minutes snatched here and there.

Take an intellectual approach to housekeeping

Apply your intellect and problem-solving skills to your daily life in the home. For example, instead of saying to yourself, "oh great, it's time to clean the bathroom again", you can bump up the interest factor by saying "I'm going to think up and test out some new ideas for faster bathroom cleaning". You'll reap rewards now from putting an intellectual spin on this task, and also in years to come from saving time with your new and more streamlined cleaning routine.

Conclusion

There are many different intellectual activities you can introduce into your day as a stay-at-home mother. Virtually all of these need to be done bit by bit because of your primary role as care provider for kids. However, you'd be surprised at how just a few minutes of intellectual time grabbed here and there during the day can go a long way to keeping your brain active, making you a happier mom!

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ThePracticalMommy profile image

ThePracticalMommy Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

Thanks for these great ideas! After doing all things toddler and baby all day long, I'm always looking for intellectual activities. I would add joining HubPages and writing articles of inerest. ;) Voted up and awesome!

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leann2800 Level 5 Commenter 11 months ago

I think this is wonderful for non-working moms on their days off too. Even at home, we can MAKE something happen rather than life happening to us. Good hub :)

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Giselle Maine Hub Author 11 months ago

Hi PracticalMommy, so glad you found this article interesting.

Yes, I agree with you - I really enjoy writing in HubPages as an intellectual activity, although with my 2 energetic youngsters it's not an activity I can easily take with me through the house. Although thinking up new ideas for hubs is something I can do during the day.

Thanks so much for your vote-up!!

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Giselle Maine Hub Author 11 months ago

Hi leann2800, that's a great point you make that these activities work equally well when the kids are not around!! I hadn't thought of that. Thanks for stopping by.

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anusha15 Level 3 Commenter 11 months ago

My mum's an artist but she left it long time back, I persuaded her to draw on the iPad with a drawing application, and we were both amazed with the results. :)Although she doesn't have young kids (I'm old enough to write here :D) but she is not taking the artistic stimulation as seriously as she should.

And channelizing intellect is very important - I'll make her read your hub sometime. :) Hopefully she would be inspired.

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Giselle Maine Hub Author 11 months ago

Anusha, your mom sounds wonderful and very talented! I'm glad she and you have together been exploring ways she can express her intellect and creativity through her art.

After we were grown, my mom branched out to get back into things she'd never had time to do... she took classes and got her University degree, we were all so thrilled for her, and very proud! Now that she is retired from working full-time, she is doing even more... such as volunteer work doing remedial reading in schools, to name just one activity. I can see that she finds it very fulfilling to finally have some time to do things that interest her, such as sharing her love of reading with others.

So if your mom loved being an artist before raising kids, I'm sure she will love it again now. Whether she is exploring new technologies or returning to more 'standard' materials doesn't matter so long as she finds what most fulfils her and allows her to express her talents and intellect. It's fantastic that you are being so supportive of your mom's talents. Best wishes to both of you!

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kwade tweeling Level 1 Commenter 11 months ago

Great work! Great ideas. My wife employs most of them daily. They definitely help.

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Giselle Maine Hub Author 11 months ago

Hi Kwade, thanks for your supportive comment, it is much appreciated. And it's valuable to get a husband's perspective on this article - I am very grateful that you stopped by.

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Anthea Carson 11 months ago

Nice job. If we are creative and proactive we can make stay-at-home parenting intellectually rewarding for both ourselves and our kids! I would also definitely recommend learning to play chess and if the kids are old enough, play chess with them.

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Giselle Maine Hub Author 11 months ago

Hi Anthea, thank you for your kind words and for your helpful input. You are so right that chess is can become a lifelong intellectual pursuit. And as you said, if the kids are old enough, it's a fantastic way to introduce them to chess.

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Emma Harvey Level 6 Commenter 3 months ago

Great hub. People sometimes forget that Mothers need a bit of mental stimulation - especially when the day consists of children's TV or talking in baby language!

When I was a childminder I was alone all day with other people's toddlers and little adult conversation. I used to play scrabble on the DS Lite when they were asleep or read online articles!

My son is 9 and very clever - he plays chess, but I haven't a clue!

Good advice here.

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Giselle Maine Hub Author 3 months ago

Emma, thanks for your comment and I'm so glad you liked this hub. It's great that your son plays chess at such a young age!

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